happy-go-lucky

Less than nubile, happily partnered damsel of the sapphic persuasion waits too long to attempt pregnancy. Enlists the use of donor sperm and donor eggs. One fresh cycle and one frozen embryo transfer later and the dreamed of BFP happens. She walks down the aisle and marries her sweetheart while 7 months pregnant. Out comes baby girl , and a whole new life (for all of them). Fast forward 3 yrs. Baby boy is born, her marriage is made legal and the adventure continues....

Monday, September 16, 2013

where i have been...( don't read this if you are still waiting for your forever baby)

I wrote this long post telling you all where I had been. Then I pressed the wrong button and it disappeared. I have no more time to myself tonight.
I am in severe doldrums, called overwhelm and depression.
The baby is fine. He is a boy!We have to move. We are doing a short sale. The bank is foreclosing on us. We have little help or support. I am so fed up of working hard and being broke.
I will update more soon when I get time.
I am sooo bummed I lost the post. I gave it everything. ugh.
Please send nice thoughts our way.
Isobel is doing great,
xo

12 comments:

Amanda said...: Lifting you in support! =); September 16, 2013 at 7:07 PM
anofferingoflove said...: im so sorry you are facing this turmoil right now. sending you love and strength. xxoo; September 17, 2013 at 7:03 AM
Reagan and Trevor's Mommy said...: Glad you checked in. We will wait for when you can post more. So happy baby boy and Isobel are doing well. Not so happy about the things stressing you. Sending hugs. :-); September 17, 2013 at 8:07 AM
Anonymous said...: I'm sorry things are hard. Glad to hear baby and big sis are doing well! Hugs, Mama!; September 17, 2013 at 12:29 PM
Fran said...: I was thinking of you so much, i'm sorry things are so difficult. I wish I was there to help. A boy! You'll love the differences!; September 17, 2013 at 4:09 PM
Allison said...: Brother and sister!

So very sorry to hear about your home. I get frustrated that we live in a small-ish apartment sometimes, but especially since I lost my job am very glad not to have to worry about mortgage payments and the like. Home ownership can be so ridiculously expensive. Hopefully you find a new place quickly.; September 18, 2013 at 6:31 AM
Illanare said...: Thinking of you and sending you good thoughts.; September 18, 2013 at 1:33 PM
Billy said...: So annoying loosing posts!
Hope things get better for you soon!
Yay for having a boy :-); September 20, 2013 at 11:43 AM
Anonymous said...: I'm sorry I'm nearly a month late in reading this. Hurray for baby boy and I hope the short sale went through or is on the verge. We finally got through ours, so I know the nightmare well. Best wishes to you every day!; October 13, 2013 at 10:18 PM
donna bean said...: hey there. Been a while since I checked your blog. A baby boy! amazing. Hope the doldrums have gone and you are ok.; November 21, 2013 at 7:18 AM
E. Phantzi said...: Wow, I am so sorry I missed this. Sounds horribly stressful. Glad the baby is doing well. Hope things look up soon...; January 7, 2014 at 7:18 AM
Eb said...: Oh hon, so sorry to hear all that. Glad the kiddo's are doing well and sending lots of tea and sympathy your way; January 7, 2014 at 4:00 PM